A new year is approaches. Last year this time, I was fulfilling one of my goals which was to start a blog. And, here I am at this point writing in it. Although, I did not used it everyday like I planned, I'm still using it and that is what is important.
So it's now house-cleaning time! No, not the physical house but house in the proverbial sense ... however you define house.
I've already cleared my phone of all text messages both sent and received because I'm making way for new and positive messages. I've also started cleaning up my FB friends list because the word 'friend' is very important... to me it means someone that you hold dear, someone who means a lot to you. We have to realize that some persons are just on our FB page to 'faas' in our business.
I'm also cleaning the house of thoughts and thought process: how I process things, if its negative, it's out of here! I'm redefining what I see as issues - in other words I'm getting rid of those things which so easily 'beset' me.
My wish for my friends, is that they would do the same... make some changes (even if it means getting rid of me!). I love this time of year because its an opportunity to re-think and re-start somethings. Equally, its to evaluate and get rid of some other things.
Whatever you choose to do... make some changes - clean house!
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Monday, December 20, 2010
Sherieta releases ‘Come Find Me’
Multitalented reggae singer and songwriter, Sherieta, has released her latest single titled ‘Come Find Me’. The song is of course written by Sherieta and is another soft-core love ballad which looks at the ever elusive love relationship which many seek to find.
The song starts with a catchy, fast-paced rhythm on which the singer shows off her deejay skills. As the song progresses, Sherieta’s knack for writing poignant lyrics is evident; the lyrics are actually poetry in song. Not only do the lines rhyme, they also tell an interesting story of a search for love, which has so far been hard to find.
This latest single is produced by accomplished local Producer, Donovan Germaine on the Penthouse Label. While this is Sherieta’s fourth released single, this is the second that is produced by Germaine. The first ‘Reggae is Life’ has enjoyed impressive airplay both in Jamaica and overseas, particularly in the UK and Africa.
Speaking specifically to the release of the single, Sherieta’s stated that the release of ‘Come Find Me’ is part of her plan to continuously release singles which speak to the many personal situations that individuals face. “My intention has always been to write and sing songs that have meaning. Songs which tug on the heart strings of my fans and Come Find Me will do just that.”
The singer has been quite busy in the studio lately, also collaborating with Gospel artiste Sherwin Gardener to release ‘Be my full stop’, another love song, which speaks to the love, commitment and trust necessary to build a relationship, hence the request for one to be the other’s ‘full stop’.
A positive individual with a strong belief that good music can change the world, Sherieta’s desire is to continue to gather a catalogue of excellently written and produced music inspired by the experiences of those around her.
The song starts with a catchy, fast-paced rhythm on which the singer shows off her deejay skills. As the song progresses, Sherieta’s knack for writing poignant lyrics is evident; the lyrics are actually poetry in song. Not only do the lines rhyme, they also tell an interesting story of a search for love, which has so far been hard to find.
This latest single is produced by accomplished local Producer, Donovan Germaine on the Penthouse Label. While this is Sherieta’s fourth released single, this is the second that is produced by Germaine. The first ‘Reggae is Life’ has enjoyed impressive airplay both in Jamaica and overseas, particularly in the UK and Africa.
Speaking specifically to the release of the single, Sherieta’s stated that the release of ‘Come Find Me’ is part of her plan to continuously release singles which speak to the many personal situations that individuals face. “My intention has always been to write and sing songs that have meaning. Songs which tug on the heart strings of my fans and Come Find Me will do just that.”
The singer has been quite busy in the studio lately, also collaborating with Gospel artiste Sherwin Gardener to release ‘Be my full stop’, another love song, which speaks to the love, commitment and trust necessary to build a relationship, hence the request for one to be the other’s ‘full stop’.
A positive individual with a strong belief that good music can change the world, Sherieta’s desire is to continue to gather a catalogue of excellently written and produced music inspired by the experiences of those around her.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Of rains, politicians and Buju
Contrary to what many believe, I have not forgotten my blog... there is just too much happening and with 'thoughts on [so many] things', you know, 'everyday stuff', the blog has just been neglected for a little while.
Nevertheless, I am still here, thinking about all the things happening and how my little contribution, albeit in words, can alleviate the situation.
So it's been raining...cats, dogs, cows and donkeys, I might add, so much so that sadly, we are mourning the loss of an entire family whose house washed completely from the gully bank. Many persons are saying they are not sorry for them because they knew not to build on the gully... I am of a completely different view... seven lives have been lost, never to be regained again, in any language, that is a humongous loss which must be mourned.
The ever-present Manatt, Phelps & Phillips Affair is still in the news...nightly! The latest is a call for a commission of inquiry into the handling of the Dudus extradition. And if that is not enough, Bruce is getting sued by the same guy (Harold Brady) who he said is no longer a member of the JLP, who said 'a lie, i'm still a member'. Then you hear 'oh he's not a member based on some technicality (apparently the guy hasn't paid his dues in a while). Then, the suit says, Brady was taking instructions on the Dudus extradition from Bruce all along, and so it continues... lawd Jeezas help wi!!! One wonders where these politicians find so much time in one day to quell so much 'cass-cass'. Anyhow as my granny would say' 'Yuh mek yuh bed, yuh lie in it... yuh cyaa plant corn and reap peas'.
I've been following the Buju trial as much as any other Buju fan. Before I get into the trial, I have to berate Buju how for a little bit. How you manage get caught in something like this man? Big, upstanding Rasta like you caught tasting Babylon's stuff? At first, I thought, they should just lock him up for being stupid. No man, at least not with Buju's brain power should ever get caught in such a situation. But alas, even if you are going to lock up a man for being stupid... isn't ten months enough? So the jury split down the middle with the verdict; couldn't the judge have declared a mistrial? One wonders if there weren't any previous similar cases on which the lawyer could call to get that mistrial?
Either way, it look to me like Buju goose cook. And nobody cannot tell me it has nothing to do with that 'Boom bye bye' song.
Anyway, Buju my love, hold the faith. It looks to me like you'll be in that Tampa prison for a looong time. In the words of our verbose Prime Minister 'hol strain'.
Lata,
Nevertheless, I am still here, thinking about all the things happening and how my little contribution, albeit in words, can alleviate the situation.
So it's been raining...cats, dogs, cows and donkeys, I might add, so much so that sadly, we are mourning the loss of an entire family whose house washed completely from the gully bank. Many persons are saying they are not sorry for them because they knew not to build on the gully... I am of a completely different view... seven lives have been lost, never to be regained again, in any language, that is a humongous loss which must be mourned.
The ever-present Manatt, Phelps & Phillips Affair is still in the news...nightly! The latest is a call for a commission of inquiry into the handling of the Dudus extradition. And if that is not enough, Bruce is getting sued by the same guy (Harold Brady) who he said is no longer a member of the JLP, who said 'a lie, i'm still a member'. Then you hear 'oh he's not a member based on some technicality (apparently the guy hasn't paid his dues in a while). Then, the suit says, Brady was taking instructions on the Dudus extradition from Bruce all along, and so it continues... lawd Jeezas help wi!!! One wonders where these politicians find so much time in one day to quell so much 'cass-cass'. Anyhow as my granny would say' 'Yuh mek yuh bed, yuh lie in it... yuh cyaa plant corn and reap peas'.
I've been following the Buju trial as much as any other Buju fan. Before I get into the trial, I have to berate Buju how for a little bit. How you manage get caught in something like this man? Big, upstanding Rasta like you caught tasting Babylon's stuff? At first, I thought, they should just lock him up for being stupid. No man, at least not with Buju's brain power should ever get caught in such a situation. But alas, even if you are going to lock up a man for being stupid... isn't ten months enough? So the jury split down the middle with the verdict; couldn't the judge have declared a mistrial? One wonders if there weren't any previous similar cases on which the lawyer could call to get that mistrial?
Either way, it look to me like Buju goose cook. And nobody cannot tell me it has nothing to do with that 'Boom bye bye' song.
Anyway, Buju my love, hold the faith. It looks to me like you'll be in that Tampa prison for a looong time. In the words of our verbose Prime Minister 'hol strain'.
Lata,
Monday, September 20, 2010
Goodbye Season 7 --- come better Season 8!
So season 7 of Digicel Rising Stars is finally over... and not a moment too soon!!! What a long, dragged-out, boring season!!! This by far has been one of the most uneventful seasons since the competition began seven years ago. It would be unfair of me to even try to blame Digicel for the lackluster performances of the contestants but Jesus man! there must be some guidelines which they are required to follow...
If I were Digicel, I would begin by restricting the number of R&B songs that each artiste can perform... this whole heap a Whitney Houston and Alicia Keys song just not cutting it (And please, don't think I have anything against these ladies, because I don't).
The next thing is the choice of songs... isn't there like an expert who helps the contestants to select songs based on their voice depth and quality???
Not one of the contestants took a risk... the most exciting performance for me came from the fourth place contestant!!! yes fourth place - Nekorah Phillips's combination with Turbulence. Not even Khago's shenanigans with Jermaine Michael had me excited. I don't even remember who Dalton performed with on that night.
This is the first year since inception that a buzz was not created around the event. In years gone by, the anticipation was so electric because everyone was keen to know who would win the competition.
This year's show is a injustice to the Rising Star Alumni who have gone before. People like Daynea Deacon, Nickesia Barnes, Chris Martin and the great, Noddy virtue made the competition come alive.
I don't know what Digicel will do next year but something's got to give. It's been said that there were much better singers who were not selected and I am certain there were but we will seriously need an injection of not only talent but creativity into next year's show.
To show how bad it was, Digicel didn't even bother to rent Mas Camp for the regular final night soiree!!! That's the one thing I admire about them, proactive not reactive!
That aside though, and in the words of Anthony Miller (judge), it was a boring, bland season!
If I were Digicel, I would begin by restricting the number of R&B songs that each artiste can perform... this whole heap a Whitney Houston and Alicia Keys song just not cutting it (And please, don't think I have anything against these ladies, because I don't).
The next thing is the choice of songs... isn't there like an expert who helps the contestants to select songs based on their voice depth and quality???
Not one of the contestants took a risk... the most exciting performance for me came from the fourth place contestant!!! yes fourth place - Nekorah Phillips's combination with Turbulence. Not even Khago's shenanigans with Jermaine Michael had me excited. I don't even remember who Dalton performed with on that night.
This is the first year since inception that a buzz was not created around the event. In years gone by, the anticipation was so electric because everyone was keen to know who would win the competition.
This year's show is a injustice to the Rising Star Alumni who have gone before. People like Daynea Deacon, Nickesia Barnes, Chris Martin and the great, Noddy virtue made the competition come alive.
I don't know what Digicel will do next year but something's got to give. It's been said that there were much better singers who were not selected and I am certain there were but we will seriously need an injection of not only talent but creativity into next year's show.
To show how bad it was, Digicel didn't even bother to rent Mas Camp for the regular final night soiree!!! That's the one thing I admire about them, proactive not reactive!
That aside though, and in the words of Anthony Miller (judge), it was a boring, bland season!
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
A likkle a everyting!
Man, its been a while since I've been here!!! So much has happened since then. Where do I start? Well, they say the beginning is always a good place.
Bruce is under fire again --- the Jamaican people are riding his ass about this Manatt thing! And he in turn has started to hit out on the media that 'they are picking on him'. But what is this though? I wonder if Bruce realizes that he is the Prime Minister and his job not only comes with responsibility but criticism??
Portia and her band of merry-men are on the righteous campaign again. The PNP has now an integrity commission. Sounds like a good concept and my pastor is actually the Chairman of this commission. But as far as I have gleaned, the commission will only be able to observe and report, they will have no final say in any candidate selection. Let's see what comes out of this.
In the midst of the bad, there is some great news... Yendi Phillips, 1st Runner-up Miss Universe 2010. You know it is so amazing, when this girl won the local leg of this competition, there were detractors who thought she shouldn't have entered and even after entering, shouldn't have won. 'Give someone else a chance' they say... but alas! now that she has done so well, is the same wagonists them running their mouth, how proud they are of Yendi. Bwoy I tell you, can't please Jamaicans but if you can't beat them, they very next best thing to do, is join them. Congrats Yendi!
Now back to other news --- the great Edith Allwood-Anderson has declared that industrial actions by the Nurses is 'back on track' and the Minister cannot hold her responsible for the actions of the Nurses. Edith, are we seriously going down this road again? Aren't you tired of issuing empty threats? You don't see that the government not taking you seriously? I don't know what you going to do my dear, but if you manage to get the reclassification and more importantly, the outstanding money, call me because I need to have a word with Bruce too!
I could not end here today without touching on my favourite sport of all time... track & field. We must admit that the US has been a formidable rival in the sport over the decades. It's always been head-to-head between Jamaica and the US but since Beijing 2008, Jamaica has been consistently coming out slightly ahead of the US. The most exciting of the rivalry though is the race between Tyson Gay (US) and Asafa Powell/Usain Bolt (JA). Just recently Tyson got the better of Bolt. I imagine he must have felt so good, he finally tamed the bull. But alas! his celebration is shortlived. Coming around the bend to clip him on the line is young stars; Yohan Blake and Nesta Carter. As if that isn't enough, there is a host of young athletes coming up; Dexter Lee, Ramone McKenzie and Odean Skeen. 2011/12 better hurry up and come cause the next World Championships/Olympics will be a storm around here!
Bruce is under fire again --- the Jamaican people are riding his ass about this Manatt thing! And he in turn has started to hit out on the media that 'they are picking on him'. But what is this though? I wonder if Bruce realizes that he is the Prime Minister and his job not only comes with responsibility but criticism??
Portia and her band of merry-men are on the righteous campaign again. The PNP has now an integrity commission. Sounds like a good concept and my pastor is actually the Chairman of this commission. But as far as I have gleaned, the commission will only be able to observe and report, they will have no final say in any candidate selection. Let's see what comes out of this.
In the midst of the bad, there is some great news... Yendi Phillips, 1st Runner-up Miss Universe 2010. You know it is so amazing, when this girl won the local leg of this competition, there were detractors who thought she shouldn't have entered and even after entering, shouldn't have won. 'Give someone else a chance' they say... but alas! now that she has done so well, is the same wagonists them running their mouth, how proud they are of Yendi. Bwoy I tell you, can't please Jamaicans but if you can't beat them, they very next best thing to do, is join them. Congrats Yendi!
Now back to other news --- the great Edith Allwood-Anderson has declared that industrial actions by the Nurses is 'back on track' and the Minister cannot hold her responsible for the actions of the Nurses. Edith, are we seriously going down this road again? Aren't you tired of issuing empty threats? You don't see that the government not taking you seriously? I don't know what you going to do my dear, but if you manage to get the reclassification and more importantly, the outstanding money, call me because I need to have a word with Bruce too!
I could not end here today without touching on my favourite sport of all time... track & field. We must admit that the US has been a formidable rival in the sport over the decades. It's always been head-to-head between Jamaica and the US but since Beijing 2008, Jamaica has been consistently coming out slightly ahead of the US. The most exciting of the rivalry though is the race between Tyson Gay (US) and Asafa Powell/Usain Bolt (JA). Just recently Tyson got the better of Bolt. I imagine he must have felt so good, he finally tamed the bull. But alas! his celebration is shortlived. Coming around the bend to clip him on the line is young stars; Yohan Blake and Nesta Carter. As if that isn't enough, there is a host of young athletes coming up; Dexter Lee, Ramone McKenzie and Odean Skeen. 2011/12 better hurry up and come cause the next World Championships/Olympics will be a storm around here!
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Put Jamaica first! Please!
I've been fighting the urge for over six months now to share my views on the constant bickering of the JLP and PNP... today, after all things considered, I am no longer fighting.
A friend of mine commented sometime ago that the JLP and PNP should be retired in the public's interest. Not only did he comment about it, he also started a group on Facebook to show how serious he was. At the writing of this entry, that group is 126 members strong! The poignant thing about this group however, is that, it's all young people. By young, I mean 20-30 odd year olds, young people who should be preparing to become standard bearers for our country.
I have always said and I maintain to this day that the biggest mistake this country made was Independence! Yes, I know I will get some flak for saying it, but when I look back at the great way in which we started and now at almost 48 years old, we hobble around like a man who made no plans in his youth, so he has no future.
In 1962, when Jamaica gained Independence, we were seen as the 'Pearl of the Caribbean'. Our Jamaican dollar was equivalent in value to the US dollar. The rest of the Caribbean, though they favoured the West Indian Federation, opted not to form same because the powerhouse, Jamaica was not part of it.
Jamaica has always been a trendsetter, and even during these current dark days, we are still world-beaters and trendsetters.
But to the issues, that have me pissed off! The saga of Dudus's extradition, the never-ending story surrounding Manatt, Phelps & Phillips (MPP) and the state of emergency. Like most Jamaicans, I sincerely believe that the JLP botched the extradition big time! If they did what needed to be done even six months ago, Jamaica would never have gone through the storm it has since experienced. The barricades, days-long gun firing between the security forces and gunmen and dead bodies galore have traumatized Jamaicans both at home and abroad.
This situation was further compounded by hiring MPP. I don't know that there is anything in the Constitution that speaks against how the situation was handled but it is messy! In a time when Jamaica continues to struggle financially, the Government found US$50,000 to discuss 'treaty issues' with an external party. Not only that, we recently learnt of an additional US$15,000 being paid again to MPP.
But its not only the financial issues, its also the fact that blatant lies were told and for a looooong time. Denials were coupled with arrogance and just outright rudeness from a number of government ministers.
I believe that it is time that Jamaicans demand respect from our 'servants'. They must be made to realize that 'is we mek dem deh which part dem deh'. Enough said about that.
Now on to the State of Emergency. A number of persons have opined that the state of emergency is simply the best thing to have happened to this country. I wholeheartedly concur! If only for a few weeks, I didn't hear about death every second and I actually thought of going out for evening entertainment :)
I know that the state of emergency cannot be in force forever but until a viable solution is found, it's worth continuing. The PNP has said that there is no emergency which is why they abstained from voting at a time when Jamaica needed them. But since the lifting of the SOE, innocent blood has once again begun to run in the country's streets. Look at the young pastor, ready to start a new chapter of his life and it was snuffed out just like that!
I have news for you Mr. Government and Mr. Opposition, we are in an emergency!!! When 5 people per day lose their lives violently in a country that is not at war, it is an emergency!
When hardworking people set-up businesses in a community and are demanded to pay protection money or else, it is an emergency!
When school grounds and hospitals are no longer safe havens for law abiding citizens, it is an emergency!
What will it take for us to realize that we must come together? The opposition continues to 'oppose, oppose, oppose' and I wonder when will they begin to really analyze situations before they oppose. I have the utmost respect for Mr. Peter Bunting... honestly I do! In fact, before his statement on Sunday, I thought of him as one of the brightest sparks in the party, apparently his bulb is not the brightest in the ever-dimming chandelier!
Government & Opposition, you all need to get your acts together because while you fight for the green and the orange, the red runs in the streets, and children and families will continue to cry for their loved one. Choose us... put Jamaica first! please!
A friend of mine commented sometime ago that the JLP and PNP should be retired in the public's interest. Not only did he comment about it, he also started a group on Facebook to show how serious he was. At the writing of this entry, that group is 126 members strong! The poignant thing about this group however, is that, it's all young people. By young, I mean 20-30 odd year olds, young people who should be preparing to become standard bearers for our country.
I have always said and I maintain to this day that the biggest mistake this country made was Independence! Yes, I know I will get some flak for saying it, but when I look back at the great way in which we started and now at almost 48 years old, we hobble around like a man who made no plans in his youth, so he has no future.
In 1962, when Jamaica gained Independence, we were seen as the 'Pearl of the Caribbean'. Our Jamaican dollar was equivalent in value to the US dollar. The rest of the Caribbean, though they favoured the West Indian Federation, opted not to form same because the powerhouse, Jamaica was not part of it.
Jamaica has always been a trendsetter, and even during these current dark days, we are still world-beaters and trendsetters.
But to the issues, that have me pissed off! The saga of Dudus's extradition, the never-ending story surrounding Manatt, Phelps & Phillips (MPP) and the state of emergency. Like most Jamaicans, I sincerely believe that the JLP botched the extradition big time! If they did what needed to be done even six months ago, Jamaica would never have gone through the storm it has since experienced. The barricades, days-long gun firing between the security forces and gunmen and dead bodies galore have traumatized Jamaicans both at home and abroad.
This situation was further compounded by hiring MPP. I don't know that there is anything in the Constitution that speaks against how the situation was handled but it is messy! In a time when Jamaica continues to struggle financially, the Government found US$50,000 to discuss 'treaty issues' with an external party. Not only that, we recently learnt of an additional US$15,000 being paid again to MPP.
But its not only the financial issues, its also the fact that blatant lies were told and for a looooong time. Denials were coupled with arrogance and just outright rudeness from a number of government ministers.
I believe that it is time that Jamaicans demand respect from our 'servants'. They must be made to realize that 'is we mek dem deh which part dem deh'. Enough said about that.
Now on to the State of Emergency. A number of persons have opined that the state of emergency is simply the best thing to have happened to this country. I wholeheartedly concur! If only for a few weeks, I didn't hear about death every second and I actually thought of going out for evening entertainment :)
I know that the state of emergency cannot be in force forever but until a viable solution is found, it's worth continuing. The PNP has said that there is no emergency which is why they abstained from voting at a time when Jamaica needed them. But since the lifting of the SOE, innocent blood has once again begun to run in the country's streets. Look at the young pastor, ready to start a new chapter of his life and it was snuffed out just like that!
I have news for you Mr. Government and Mr. Opposition, we are in an emergency!!! When 5 people per day lose their lives violently in a country that is not at war, it is an emergency!
When hardworking people set-up businesses in a community and are demanded to pay protection money or else, it is an emergency!
When school grounds and hospitals are no longer safe havens for law abiding citizens, it is an emergency!
What will it take for us to realize that we must come together? The opposition continues to 'oppose, oppose, oppose' and I wonder when will they begin to really analyze situations before they oppose. I have the utmost respect for Mr. Peter Bunting... honestly I do! In fact, before his statement on Sunday, I thought of him as one of the brightest sparks in the party, apparently his bulb is not the brightest in the ever-dimming chandelier!
Government & Opposition, you all need to get your acts together because while you fight for the green and the orange, the red runs in the streets, and children and families will continue to cry for their loved one. Choose us... put Jamaica first! please!
Monday, July 19, 2010
Public Appearances!
By no stretch of the imagination am I a fashion maven. I'm so comfortable in my skin that I an happy to wear anything that feels and looks good to me, even if my onlookers don't like it. But you know the difference between me and the people I'm about to talk about, I'm not a public figure!
Now people, I have a problem with those people who constantly hawk the camera but are never yet put together for the spotlight... from bad wigs to tacky outfits, these fashion atrocities come onto the big screen, mouth filled with complaints and when you look at them... ugh!
As I speak, one prominent person comes to mind, and even though these are my thoughts, there are things called lawsuits. And since I'm broke, I'm just going to describe the situation.
I must commend this individual because she can truly say 'she nuh fraid a no bwoy, or no gyal, no day' but that damn wig has got to go!!!!! It is so unnerving to see her on TV swinging her head from side to side defending the rights of the workers with the wig kotch one side! Probably all held down to her scalp using one single pin!!!! And then there are the clothes, good God Almighty... need I say more!
People, when you're constantly making public appearances, it is a must that you have certain things in place; at least two well-tailored suits, two pairs of well-heeled shoes and a good enough relationship with your hairdresser so that she can 'trust' you a do!!!
It is ridiculous, even in a recession, as a public personality to look so off-form, what are you trying to do, bring attention to your own situation? It ain't about you, it's about the workers! And any worker's representative who intends to represent me, particularly on TV, better get their act together!
Then there are those representatives who try too damn hard!!! Appearing on TV in Versace suits and Gucci glasses will not get you any additional benefits for those workers you claim to love and cherish! Let me tell you how the people with the purse strings think; "If you can afford name brand suits and shoes, you don't need a raise."
There is this thing called balance, or creating an illusion if you will; public personalities must learn to create this illusion. If you are representing a group of persons and most of them look 'pop-down' how you going to come on TV in your most expensive Sunday best to say 'we want more money. we broke, can't the government see that?" No he can't, your crisp suit and blinging glasses is blinding him!!!!
Come on people, that's why there is a profession called 'Stylist'. You don't have to have one everyday, but hire one just to re-do your wardrobe for you but for God's sake... don't come on my TV looking like you are the worst of, or better than me!
Now people, I have a problem with those people who constantly hawk the camera but are never yet put together for the spotlight... from bad wigs to tacky outfits, these fashion atrocities come onto the big screen, mouth filled with complaints and when you look at them... ugh!
As I speak, one prominent person comes to mind, and even though these are my thoughts, there are things called lawsuits. And since I'm broke, I'm just going to describe the situation.
I must commend this individual because she can truly say 'she nuh fraid a no bwoy, or no gyal, no day' but that damn wig has got to go!!!!! It is so unnerving to see her on TV swinging her head from side to side defending the rights of the workers with the wig kotch one side! Probably all held down to her scalp using one single pin!!!! And then there are the clothes, good God Almighty... need I say more!
People, when you're constantly making public appearances, it is a must that you have certain things in place; at least two well-tailored suits, two pairs of well-heeled shoes and a good enough relationship with your hairdresser so that she can 'trust' you a do!!!
It is ridiculous, even in a recession, as a public personality to look so off-form, what are you trying to do, bring attention to your own situation? It ain't about you, it's about the workers! And any worker's representative who intends to represent me, particularly on TV, better get their act together!
Then there are those representatives who try too damn hard!!! Appearing on TV in Versace suits and Gucci glasses will not get you any additional benefits for those workers you claim to love and cherish! Let me tell you how the people with the purse strings think; "If you can afford name brand suits and shoes, you don't need a raise."
There is this thing called balance, or creating an illusion if you will; public personalities must learn to create this illusion. If you are representing a group of persons and most of them look 'pop-down' how you going to come on TV in your most expensive Sunday best to say 'we want more money. we broke, can't the government see that?" No he can't, your crisp suit and blinging glasses is blinding him!!!!
Come on people, that's why there is a profession called 'Stylist'. You don't have to have one everyday, but hire one just to re-do your wardrobe for you but for God's sake... don't come on my TV looking like you are the worst of, or better than me!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
What defines sexy?
What defines sexy?
Is sexy naked? Does sexy require you to show all and sundry every conceivable curve or flab that your body possesses? I'm wondering this particularly because lady's' nowadays especially the ones who must go to every possible party or dance believe that naked is sexy!!! It is such a disconcerting sight to see a woman in a pair of shorts which is obviously too small for her parading about for all to see her 'baddy'.
Then there is the breast/brassiere craze... most women now seem content with their breast brushing their chin because cleavage 'haffi show'. And for those who are not heartily 'blessed' they must wear push-ups which struggle to find and push excessive skin up on their chest. Now don't get me wrong, I believe in the concept of accentuating the positives but when did showing the breast and brassiere become a legitimate part of an outfit?
Sexy is supposed to be tasteful. It is a state of mind in which confidence plays a critical role. Sexy does not need or want anyone to validate it. Sexy is comfortable in the fact that not everyone will like its brand but is certain that whomever is supposed to take notice does and does so unreservedly.
When I was growing up, I was made aware of a statement which promotes the concept that 'less is more'... these women who constantly parade their nakedness need to be told.
If you show a man all he wants to see then there is nothing left to entice him with. Women must begin to understand that men think differently and if he thinks you're easy... he'll take you alright, he will take all he wants from you and then leave you.
Have some pride in yourselves ladies. We are beautiful and strong. We can be sexy but there is no accounting for nakedness. And it's not every style that will suit your body type. An outfit that looks amazing on a size 4 body may not look the same on a size 14... use your head ladies!
Is sexy naked? Does sexy require you to show all and sundry every conceivable curve or flab that your body possesses? I'm wondering this particularly because lady's' nowadays especially the ones who must go to every possible party or dance believe that naked is sexy!!! It is such a disconcerting sight to see a woman in a pair of shorts which is obviously too small for her parading about for all to see her 'baddy'.
Then there is the breast/brassiere craze... most women now seem content with their breast brushing their chin because cleavage 'haffi show'. And for those who are not heartily 'blessed' they must wear push-ups which struggle to find and push excessive skin up on their chest. Now don't get me wrong, I believe in the concept of accentuating the positives but when did showing the breast and brassiere become a legitimate part of an outfit?
Sexy is supposed to be tasteful. It is a state of mind in which confidence plays a critical role. Sexy does not need or want anyone to validate it. Sexy is comfortable in the fact that not everyone will like its brand but is certain that whomever is supposed to take notice does and does so unreservedly.
When I was growing up, I was made aware of a statement which promotes the concept that 'less is more'... these women who constantly parade their nakedness need to be told.
If you show a man all he wants to see then there is nothing left to entice him with. Women must begin to understand that men think differently and if he thinks you're easy... he'll take you alright, he will take all he wants from you and then leave you.
Have some pride in yourselves ladies. We are beautiful and strong. We can be sexy but there is no accounting for nakedness. And it's not every style that will suit your body type. An outfit that looks amazing on a size 4 body may not look the same on a size 14... use your head ladies!
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Again! the Church is not doing enough... or is it?
So the berating continues, society is disintegrating while the church sits quietly, pompously watching. Forgive me for not subscribing to this view. I for one have seen with my own eyes where the church has, and continues to changes lives and transform attitudes and I am not talking about tongue-speaking and bible-thumping... I am talking about positive change. Change that can be seen and felt! I am talking about people who had no hope but through re-socialization, education and empowerment are now positive contributors to society.
Have you ever stopped to notice that those who constantly attack the church for not doing anything (or enough) are the ones that are not associated with any church? How can you effectively comment on an organization that you know nothing about? You have no known (or unknown) affiliation with the church... are your comments based solely on hearsay or do you have you some other source of information that no-one else knows about? These are the same people that say who curse the church for its love of money...*tut, tut, tut*. But let me ask a couple of questions:
- Who is the church? Is it a building or is it the people that make it up?
- How can the church be expected to contribute if it has no resources with which to 'make the difference'?
- How do churches operate? As far as I know, they are non-profit organizations and therefore, they are dependent on the faithful few (and I do mean few) who give of their money to it.
- If the people who attend church do not pay tithes or offering, how are the bills expected to be paid?
- In fact, since the church is stuck in the four walls, when they come out for evangelism, how will they pay for the logistics of setting up say a two week crusade?
In all situations, there are extremes. I will be the first to admit that some churches overdo it. They don't care where the money comes from as long as they get it. What then happens is that their 'fat is used to fry every other church.'
To those persons who constantly beat up the church about 'not doing enough', can you remove the wool from your eyes long enough to recognize that they actually do a lot? Or, if you are convinced that the church serves no purpose, join the organization and make a change.
Realize this, if you continue to curse about the lack of action on the church's part and you sit and do nothing about it, you are just as bad as, or maybe even worse than the church itself!
Lata,
Have you ever stopped to notice that those who constantly attack the church for not doing anything (or enough) are the ones that are not associated with any church? How can you effectively comment on an organization that you know nothing about? You have no known (or unknown) affiliation with the church... are your comments based solely on hearsay or do you have you some other source of information that no-one else knows about? These are the same people that say who curse the church for its love of money...*tut, tut, tut*. But let me ask a couple of questions:
- Who is the church? Is it a building or is it the people that make it up?
- How can the church be expected to contribute if it has no resources with which to 'make the difference'?
- How do churches operate? As far as I know, they are non-profit organizations and therefore, they are dependent on the faithful few (and I do mean few) who give of their money to it.
- If the people who attend church do not pay tithes or offering, how are the bills expected to be paid?
- In fact, since the church is stuck in the four walls, when they come out for evangelism, how will they pay for the logistics of setting up say a two week crusade?
In all situations, there are extremes. I will be the first to admit that some churches overdo it. They don't care where the money comes from as long as they get it. What then happens is that their 'fat is used to fry every other church.'
To those persons who constantly beat up the church about 'not doing enough', can you remove the wool from your eyes long enough to recognize that they actually do a lot? Or, if you are convinced that the church serves no purpose, join the organization and make a change.
Realize this, if you continue to curse about the lack of action on the church's part and you sit and do nothing about it, you are just as bad as, or maybe even worse than the church itself!
Lata,
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
WANTED
Wanted: A revolutionary leader who is not afraid to disturb current trends and topple existing systems. One who understands his role as a visionary. A transformational leader who is not afraid to lead a people who are seriously ready for change. A leader who understands that the protection and growth of his people are the platform on which his leadership stands and when that platform shakes, the very fabric of his leadership is questioned.
Wanted: A system that shuns unnecessary bureaucracy and corruption and actually promotes honesty while encouraging its constituents to grow and enlarge their borders. A system that respects the rights and freedoms of the people it serves. A system that understands that without the people, it would not exist.
Wanted: A country that treasures its young and reveres its aged. A country that praises its women and honors its men. A country that understands that greatness comes not only from east and the west but from the God which created it.
Wanted: A people in whom 'bad-mind' has no place. A people who understands that they are greater than they can even begin to imagine. A people whom others envy because of their sheer ability to illuminate and enliven the environment in which they exist.
Wanted: A life that can be lived to its fullest without a persistent fear of the unknown. A life that can fulfill its predestined potential having been provided with the necessary resources to achieve.
WANTED!!!
Wanted: A system that shuns unnecessary bureaucracy and corruption and actually promotes honesty while encouraging its constituents to grow and enlarge their borders. A system that respects the rights and freedoms of the people it serves. A system that understands that without the people, it would not exist.
Wanted: A country that treasures its young and reveres its aged. A country that praises its women and honors its men. A country that understands that greatness comes not only from east and the west but from the God which created it.
Wanted: A people in whom 'bad-mind' has no place. A people who understands that they are greater than they can even begin to imagine. A people whom others envy because of their sheer ability to illuminate and enliven the environment in which they exist.
Wanted: A life that can be lived to its fullest without a persistent fear of the unknown. A life that can fulfill its predestined potential having been provided with the necessary resources to achieve.
WANTED!!!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
A Country at Ransom!
First, it was the Doctors, then the Nurses and the Police. Now, it’s the Teachers and workers at the National Water Commission. Personally, I think all these strikes are a plot! They are a plot to hold the decent and law-abiding citizens of this country at ransom. I find it quite strange that suddenly everybody get up and decide to take on the government. Now don’t get me wrong, not for one minute am I defending the stance of the government but seriously, out of the blue everybody just want them money so!!!! Something fishy!!!
Let’s look at the issue of whether or not these workers deserve the increases they are sticking out for – in my personal opinion, if an employer and his employee make an agreement that after a certain period of time they will receive a salary increase, then undoubtedly the employer must fulfill his end of the bargain. It is not permissible for the employer to tell the employee that “him noh have no money and a just so it goh”. However, there is a major difference when the employer is the government and there is a country to run that has every imaginable deficit there is.
The fact is that, the government must learn to communicate with its employees and in a timely manner any difficulties they are having. It is not enough to appear on television and announce that “the teachers could strike all they want; after they are finished they are not getting one red cent more”. Diplomacy, tact and communication skills are seriously lacking in this current crop of government ministers.
On the other hand, one thing is crystal clear; the Government has no money!!!!. Regardless of how ‘tough’ Audley Shaw gets on collection of taxes and no matter how much he borrows from the multilaterals, the funds are just not enough to stretch to salary increases. Big and serious still, as a government employee myself, a raise would do me well right now but as a former Economics student, I know that if the government decides to print all the money we need and pay all the people we owe; all when Jesus come and gone 3000 years from now, Jamaica noh done pay debt yet!!!!
The other issue I have with these sudden strikes is the proliferation of Unions. Oh God!!! I find them so disingenuous!!! There is this popular Union Representative (him face favour Rat Bat)... all they do is boost up the workers to strike and when things go back to normal, management ‘slights’ the striking staff.
So now that I have ventilated my opinions on this ‘striking’ issue… here are my humble recommendations to the different groups;
1. To all – Go back to work; it’s plain and simple – the government does not have the money. Work out another reasonable yet workable timeline and demand your money then. Now my friends, is not a good time.
2. If you feel that you must hold me; a decent, law-abiding, tax-paying, water-rate paying citizen at ransom, then do only your assigned duties and work for your appointed time but for God sake, do not give children who already cannot count any extra time off from school. And as for the Water Commission workers; you are already perceived as an ineffective bunch, striking doesn’t do anything to increase your ratings.
3. Teachers – As someone who has the utmost respect for Educators, I am appalled that you could even have thought of closing down the education system for two whole days. In my opinion you are the most critical of the lot because you teach the doctors, nurses, police and national water commission staff. “Onoo shoulda shame”… imagine there is a 45% numeracy rate in primary schools and you find time to stay home and watch Jerry Springer and the Maury Show. Whether you believe it or not, the old adage which says ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ still stands, if the children are not being taught at home and not being taught at school, how is Jamaica as a society going to manage???
4. Now the Nurses, led by the great Edith Allwood-Anderson have been quiet for a while. But if I know Edith well, it’s only a matter of time before she shots out of the woodwork again and declare the nurses ‘sick’. But looky here my lovely Edith, allowing sick people to die does not score any cool points with God. If I were you, I would encourage my Nurses like the Teachers to do the whole ‘work-to-rule’ thingy cause I heard from a good source that Jesus doesn’t like human sacrifices!
Guys, let’s work this out. Our beloved country is already so unproductive and here we have professionals willing to give up good production time to prove a point. Try and work it out, you are all supposed to be educated people, act accordingly! I guess if all negotiations fail then we might have to bring in the Disputes Resolution Foundation or the Peace Management Initiative.
Lata,
Let’s look at the issue of whether or not these workers deserve the increases they are sticking out for – in my personal opinion, if an employer and his employee make an agreement that after a certain period of time they will receive a salary increase, then undoubtedly the employer must fulfill his end of the bargain. It is not permissible for the employer to tell the employee that “him noh have no money and a just so it goh”. However, there is a major difference when the employer is the government and there is a country to run that has every imaginable deficit there is.
The fact is that, the government must learn to communicate with its employees and in a timely manner any difficulties they are having. It is not enough to appear on television and announce that “the teachers could strike all they want; after they are finished they are not getting one red cent more”. Diplomacy, tact and communication skills are seriously lacking in this current crop of government ministers.
On the other hand, one thing is crystal clear; the Government has no money!!!!. Regardless of how ‘tough’ Audley Shaw gets on collection of taxes and no matter how much he borrows from the multilaterals, the funds are just not enough to stretch to salary increases. Big and serious still, as a government employee myself, a raise would do me well right now but as a former Economics student, I know that if the government decides to print all the money we need and pay all the people we owe; all when Jesus come and gone 3000 years from now, Jamaica noh done pay debt yet!!!!
The other issue I have with these sudden strikes is the proliferation of Unions. Oh God!!! I find them so disingenuous!!! There is this popular Union Representative (him face favour Rat Bat)... all they do is boost up the workers to strike and when things go back to normal, management ‘slights’ the striking staff.
So now that I have ventilated my opinions on this ‘striking’ issue… here are my humble recommendations to the different groups;
1. To all – Go back to work; it’s plain and simple – the government does not have the money. Work out another reasonable yet workable timeline and demand your money then. Now my friends, is not a good time.
2. If you feel that you must hold me; a decent, law-abiding, tax-paying, water-rate paying citizen at ransom, then do only your assigned duties and work for your appointed time but for God sake, do not give children who already cannot count any extra time off from school. And as for the Water Commission workers; you are already perceived as an ineffective bunch, striking doesn’t do anything to increase your ratings.
3. Teachers – As someone who has the utmost respect for Educators, I am appalled that you could even have thought of closing down the education system for two whole days. In my opinion you are the most critical of the lot because you teach the doctors, nurses, police and national water commission staff. “Onoo shoulda shame”… imagine there is a 45% numeracy rate in primary schools and you find time to stay home and watch Jerry Springer and the Maury Show. Whether you believe it or not, the old adage which says ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ still stands, if the children are not being taught at home and not being taught at school, how is Jamaica as a society going to manage???
4. Now the Nurses, led by the great Edith Allwood-Anderson have been quiet for a while. But if I know Edith well, it’s only a matter of time before she shots out of the woodwork again and declare the nurses ‘sick’. But looky here my lovely Edith, allowing sick people to die does not score any cool points with God. If I were you, I would encourage my Nurses like the Teachers to do the whole ‘work-to-rule’ thingy cause I heard from a good source that Jesus doesn’t like human sacrifices!
Guys, let’s work this out. Our beloved country is already so unproductive and here we have professionals willing to give up good production time to prove a point. Try and work it out, you are all supposed to be educated people, act accordingly! I guess if all negotiations fail then we might have to bring in the Disputes Resolution Foundation or the Peace Management Initiative.
Lata,
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Those reality shows
Today is not a scheduled day for blogging. In fact, as I write I should be picking up the last set of tips before my big Law exam this afternoon. But after months of observation and being hit with yet another reality show, I had no choice, I simply had to log on and air my views about these 'reality' shows.
Count with me; let's see how many of them we have:
- Dancin Dynamites
- Digicel Rising Stars
- Magnum Kings & Queens of the Dancehall
and the newest addition, CVM's The Anchor.
Now this 'new' reality show is sort different in that there is no voting to see who will win the 'coveted' prize. However, it's still a bunch of hopefuls who in most cases have absolutely no talent in the area for which they are auditioning and appear on national television to make an absolute ass of themselves.
I had to voice one of my many thoughts last night: I wonder if any member of government takes the time to watch any of these shows? Because I don't know what anyone else sees, but what I see (with very little exception) is a bunch of people who have no other opportunity and are just 'tryin a ting'.
I remember watching an episode of Rising Star's and saw a man who had a different 'walk' for each day of the week. Yes it was funny to watch. But to see someone make such an ass of them self in a bid to get a few laughs and maybe a call back is nothing short of ridiculous. Then there was another lady from Montego Bay who literally collapsed when she auditioned for the Magnum Kings & Queens of Dancehall and was told to try again. Her reasoning behind the collapse "she has four children, no father, she lost her job and this audition was her last hope".
If I were in government, I would feel so guilty. Yes parents must take responsibility for bringing up responsible and hardworking citizens but if no opportunities are provided then what do we have? a country of people who are waiting for the next audition to 'try a ting'.
Count with me; let's see how many of them we have:
- Dancin Dynamites
- Digicel Rising Stars
- Magnum Kings & Queens of the Dancehall
and the newest addition, CVM's The Anchor.
Now this 'new' reality show is sort different in that there is no voting to see who will win the 'coveted' prize. However, it's still a bunch of hopefuls who in most cases have absolutely no talent in the area for which they are auditioning and appear on national television to make an absolute ass of themselves.
I had to voice one of my many thoughts last night: I wonder if any member of government takes the time to watch any of these shows? Because I don't know what anyone else sees, but what I see (with very little exception) is a bunch of people who have no other opportunity and are just 'tryin a ting'.
I remember watching an episode of Rising Star's and saw a man who had a different 'walk' for each day of the week. Yes it was funny to watch. But to see someone make such an ass of them self in a bid to get a few laughs and maybe a call back is nothing short of ridiculous. Then there was another lady from Montego Bay who literally collapsed when she auditioned for the Magnum Kings & Queens of Dancehall and was told to try again. Her reasoning behind the collapse "she has four children, no father, she lost her job and this audition was her last hope".
If I were in government, I would feel so guilty. Yes parents must take responsibility for bringing up responsible and hardworking citizens but if no opportunities are provided then what do we have? a country of people who are waiting for the next audition to 'try a ting'.
Thursday, April 15, 2010
So proud of my friend... Marie Berbick
I am so happy for and proud of my friend Marie Berbick. I met this young lady about ten years ago when we (well mainly me), were rookie Journalists at a local newspaper. I was so introverted. Shy cyaan done! But Marie with her positive outlook and experience literally held my hand led me safely through those early assignments. I remember when I had to cover social events (with the big shots as it were), God I hated it because I thought, the socialites thought they were better than me. Marie would just walk into the room or wherever these events were held, talk with a few persons, get her story and she'd be out. I admired that because in her I saw who I wanted to be as a journalist.
As she does these days, she always strived for excellence. I remember when she won a certificate from the Press Association of Jamaica, I was her date that night! and I say that proudly because we had been on the battle field many times. We were together in 1998 (i believe it was) when Downtown was under siege after the police held Zeeks, and we were together on one of the many occasions back then when Mountain View broke out in war! It was her who actually encouraged me to do a Certificate course in Journalism, a course I later aced and earned my first front-page story from.
Years later, here she is, launching and operating her own company BERBICK GRAHAM CREATIVE and doing a fantastic job. We've remained friends over the years and on occasion, we get together and share our experiences.
Girlie; I just want you to know how proud I am of you. You are an inspiration and truly and strong black woman.
Love,
As she does these days, she always strived for excellence. I remember when she won a certificate from the Press Association of Jamaica, I was her date that night! and I say that proudly because we had been on the battle field many times. We were together in 1998 (i believe it was) when Downtown was under siege after the police held Zeeks, and we were together on one of the many occasions back then when Mountain View broke out in war! It was her who actually encouraged me to do a Certificate course in Journalism, a course I later aced and earned my first front-page story from.
Years later, here she is, launching and operating her own company BERBICK GRAHAM CREATIVE and doing a fantastic job. We've remained friends over the years and on occasion, we get together and share our experiences.
Girlie; I just want you to know how proud I am of you. You are an inspiration and truly and strong black woman.
Love,
Monday, April 12, 2010
One week ... Amazing Word
Okay, so my one week sabbatical is over... One week of denying myself the so-called pleasures of the world. Now for each of us those 'pleasures' are different, for me however, it was mainly Television and Facebook. I have programmes that I religiously watch on TV week in-week out and as for Facebook, I am constantly online... updating my status, commenting on my friends' status and generally just updating myself on everything happening both locally and around the world.
The most challenging part of the sabbatical however was the fast... pushing away the plate was and is the ultimate challenge... it takes faith and determination to be able to deny yourself food to make your point with God. But it is a sacrifice of which the Bible speaks. In Matthew 17:21, the Lord himself advised his disciples that "...this kind goeth not out save by prayer and fasting". This means that there are some things from which we need deliverance that cannot come out just by prayer alone, some things have to be declared, and in Christian terms, the strongest form of declaration is prayer coupled with fasting - a 'deadly' combination.
For me, the most defining day of the fast was Wednesday - defining because I got a word from God that I will not soon forget, Joshua 3:5 - "Sanctify yourselves for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you." I'm holding on to this word, I am declaring that my life will be a testament of God's amazing works.
Friends, I am sharing this with you because I think it is critical that we find some form of hope in this world. It is so sad when we observe the things happening around us, simple things turn into major issues - people are so angry with each other, a simple misstep on someone's toe may end up in a fight, literally. We need a song in our hearts and my song comes from the God who is concerned with everything that affects me.
I hope that you too will find peace, love and comfort in God's safe and abiding arms.
Lata,
The most challenging part of the sabbatical however was the fast... pushing away the plate was and is the ultimate challenge... it takes faith and determination to be able to deny yourself food to make your point with God. But it is a sacrifice of which the Bible speaks. In Matthew 17:21, the Lord himself advised his disciples that "...this kind goeth not out save by prayer and fasting". This means that there are some things from which we need deliverance that cannot come out just by prayer alone, some things have to be declared, and in Christian terms, the strongest form of declaration is prayer coupled with fasting - a 'deadly' combination.
For me, the most defining day of the fast was Wednesday - defining because I got a word from God that I will not soon forget, Joshua 3:5 - "Sanctify yourselves for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you." I'm holding on to this word, I am declaring that my life will be a testament of God's amazing works.
Friends, I am sharing this with you because I think it is critical that we find some form of hope in this world. It is so sad when we observe the things happening around us, simple things turn into major issues - people are so angry with each other, a simple misstep on someone's toe may end up in a fight, literally. We need a song in our hearts and my song comes from the God who is concerned with everything that affects me.
I hope that you too will find peace, love and comfort in God's safe and abiding arms.
Lata,
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Sabbatical
My fellow friends, in just a little under a week, I will be embarking on a sabbatical of sorts... 7 days of fasting and prayer. Now, I have done fasting and prayer before but this sabbatical will be sort of different. Different because, it will be a true shunning of all the 'earthly' things that are considered joyful or pleasant to shut away with God and really spend some quality time with him.
Is it going to be hard? I think so. Imagine me, no facebook for a week... anyone who knows me, knows that I live for facebook. I also live for TV ... Generations & Lost will just have to do without me. I'm sure they'll manage - it's me I'm worried about!
There is also another long list of can't do-s over the week; like
- no make-up
- no meat
- no sugary, sweet stuff
- limited cell phone use
Guys, can I tell you... I'm looking forward to it but being the slave I am to technology, it is going to be a task.
I'm sure you are wondering now why would she have to be so extreme... well, it's about, showing commitment and saying to the Lord, that I can indeed shed some things for a while just to follow him in serious prayer and supplication.
So if you don't see me online or hear nothing from my blog... i'm just taking a step back... to evaluate!
Lata,
Is it going to be hard? I think so. Imagine me, no facebook for a week... anyone who knows me, knows that I live for facebook. I also live for TV ... Generations & Lost will just have to do without me. I'm sure they'll manage - it's me I'm worried about!
There is also another long list of can't do-s over the week; like
- no make-up
- no meat
- no sugary, sweet stuff
- limited cell phone use
Guys, can I tell you... I'm looking forward to it but being the slave I am to technology, it is going to be a task.
I'm sure you are wondering now why would she have to be so extreme... well, it's about, showing commitment and saying to the Lord, that I can indeed shed some things for a while just to follow him in serious prayer and supplication.
So if you don't see me online or hear nothing from my blog... i'm just taking a step back... to evaluate!
Lata,
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
To be mad is to be truly free! lol!
This morning I had the weirdest thought. I saw a madman quite relaxed on the street Downtown and thought to myself 'bwoy him nuh have a care in di world eeh'. As I continued on my journey, I found myself really thinking about the madman ... no i am not attracted to him (or any other mad person for that matter). But I just thought and wondered at that moment if anyone has ever observed the mannerisms of mad people... they go about carelessly, if they are hungry - they eat: anything! if they are thirsty - they drink: anything! They never get sick (physically that is) and anywhere night catch them, that's where they sleep. People pay no attention to their antics because under the law, they are mentally challenged and are not responsible for their actions. So if they feel like dancing naked in the streets it's on them.
Now you must be wondering why I suddenly start thinking about mad people? Well, I was thinking about freedom and I realized that to be mad is to be truly free!!! What a revelation!!!
With the exception of the fact that people chase you away every chance they get; you are pretty much free to do anything you want to do!
You also have quite a few more perks;
- You have no house and therefore no bills to pay
- No one calls you if they have no money because you don't have any either
- You don't care about where your food comes from; there is no 'nit-picking' about dirty food. You will eat the patty bag; it's not a problem
- Bathing: that is not an issue - you walk around for as long as you want without a shower - it is usually us the sane ones that have a problem with the smell
- Work - what name so?
- Shoes - two plastic bags work just fine
- Clothes - If you have none, you wear none! Simple!
LOL! Seriously though guys, take a look at the next mad person you see. I guarantee you'll observe someone who is totally and completely free.
Lata,
Now you must be wondering why I suddenly start thinking about mad people? Well, I was thinking about freedom and I realized that to be mad is to be truly free!!! What a revelation!!!
With the exception of the fact that people chase you away every chance they get; you are pretty much free to do anything you want to do!
You also have quite a few more perks;
- You have no house and therefore no bills to pay
- No one calls you if they have no money because you don't have any either
- You don't care about where your food comes from; there is no 'nit-picking' about dirty food. You will eat the patty bag; it's not a problem
- Bathing: that is not an issue - you walk around for as long as you want without a shower - it is usually us the sane ones that have a problem with the smell
- Work - what name so?
- Shoes - two plastic bags work just fine
- Clothes - If you have none, you wear none! Simple!
LOL! Seriously though guys, take a look at the next mad person you see. I guarantee you'll observe someone who is totally and completely free.
Lata,
Monday, March 22, 2010
If I laugh, I cry!
You know, I had no idea how my blogs were missed until recently... so many persons have asked me if I've stopped. The truth is I have not stopped. I have rather, been taking stock of my environment... there is so much to write about! Information overload is killing me.
There is so much to rant and rave about! Have you noticed that there is hardly any good news being reported lately??? I recall in the latter part of last year when I wrote a letter to the Gleaner Editor, lauding them for their effort to report good news... but recently I can't even blame them, the situations facing us as Jamaicans daily is just so colorful, exciting and filled with so many unexpected twists and turns! All I have to say is "who could have thunk it???"
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that the ever evolving predicaments in which Jamaica finds itself is exciting, what I am doing is using the words loosely, a pun if you please :)
So while the 'excitement' on the Rock continues, I continue to observe... sometimes holding my breath as I do. One word we could never use to describe Jamaica is predictable. Anyone who does that either has no appreciation for the English language is just plain boring.
Y'all must be wondering what I'm on about now... but I learnt a long time ago, 'a noh everyting good fi eat, good fi talk' soh mi just a 'kibba mi mout'. To the others of you who know what I'm lamenting about, what a situation my dears!!!
If I laugh, I cry!
There is so much to rant and rave about! Have you noticed that there is hardly any good news being reported lately??? I recall in the latter part of last year when I wrote a letter to the Gleaner Editor, lauding them for their effort to report good news... but recently I can't even blame them, the situations facing us as Jamaicans daily is just so colorful, exciting and filled with so many unexpected twists and turns! All I have to say is "who could have thunk it???"
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that the ever evolving predicaments in which Jamaica finds itself is exciting, what I am doing is using the words loosely, a pun if you please :)
So while the 'excitement' on the Rock continues, I continue to observe... sometimes holding my breath as I do. One word we could never use to describe Jamaica is predictable. Anyone who does that either has no appreciation for the English language is just plain boring.
Y'all must be wondering what I'm on about now... but I learnt a long time ago, 'a noh everyting good fi eat, good fi talk' soh mi just a 'kibba mi mout'. To the others of you who know what I'm lamenting about, what a situation my dears!!!
If I laugh, I cry!
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Hypocrisy ... Jamaicans for Justice!
So I've been listening to Jamaicans For Justice and their cronies calling for the resignation of Alison Anderson-McLean - the CEO of the Child Development Agency and June Spencer-Jarrett - head of the Correction Services, based on the findings in the Armandale Report.
Seriously, come on JFJ, why are you calling for Misses Mclean & Jarrett's resignation.. theirs is a situation in perpetuation for the last 40 years! The Jamaican 'child care' system is nothing but a joke! In fact to call it 'child care' is actually a contradictory term. Most of the buildings in which these homes are housed are in the most dilapidated condition. They are not fit to house animals much less people. As for Juveniles in correctional institutions, that is just inhumane. Don't tell me that after 40-odd years of independence and loans from every possible international market and international institution, the Jamaican government couldn't conduct an overall of the system to include the buildings and the people that are placed in these institutions to administer support to the children?
Unless I seriously wanted to punish any child for merely being born, I would not consider, not even for a moment to commit him to such an horror.
I am not saying that these ladies are blameless in the situation. By joining the Public Service in their respective capacities, they vowed to make a difference to the system. If that difference meant just speaking up about the conditions they encountered in the conduct of their daily duties, then they should have spoken up. But to try to lay the blame squarely at the feet of the ladies is just wrong. If anyone should take the blame, it is the government of Jamaica, and I am not just referring to the current government but all governments of the past...
If a system had been put in place to refurbish these 'homes' over the years, then my God, Armandale would have more than one bathroom! Girls would not have to suffer the indignity of 'going' in a bucket and have the bucket stay beside them for the entire night before they can get rid of it and certainly 23 girls would not be sleeping in a quarter suited for only 14 girls!!!
Regardless of how 'bad' these girls are (and having done community work, I know that they can be bad), no-one deserves to live in such conditions. Can you imagine being in a fire and no-one can find the key to let you out of a furnace and you stand there and scream until those screams turn into shrieks and then only a wimper?????
I cannot even imagine the horror that faced those girls and I can only hope that no-one else suffers the same fate!
Seriously, come on JFJ, why are you calling for Misses Mclean & Jarrett's resignation.. theirs is a situation in perpetuation for the last 40 years! The Jamaican 'child care' system is nothing but a joke! In fact to call it 'child care' is actually a contradictory term. Most of the buildings in which these homes are housed are in the most dilapidated condition. They are not fit to house animals much less people. As for Juveniles in correctional institutions, that is just inhumane. Don't tell me that after 40-odd years of independence and loans from every possible international market and international institution, the Jamaican government couldn't conduct an overall of the system to include the buildings and the people that are placed in these institutions to administer support to the children?
Unless I seriously wanted to punish any child for merely being born, I would not consider, not even for a moment to commit him to such an horror.
I am not saying that these ladies are blameless in the situation. By joining the Public Service in their respective capacities, they vowed to make a difference to the system. If that difference meant just speaking up about the conditions they encountered in the conduct of their daily duties, then they should have spoken up. But to try to lay the blame squarely at the feet of the ladies is just wrong. If anyone should take the blame, it is the government of Jamaica, and I am not just referring to the current government but all governments of the past...
If a system had been put in place to refurbish these 'homes' over the years, then my God, Armandale would have more than one bathroom! Girls would not have to suffer the indignity of 'going' in a bucket and have the bucket stay beside them for the entire night before they can get rid of it and certainly 23 girls would not be sleeping in a quarter suited for only 14 girls!!!
Regardless of how 'bad' these girls are (and having done community work, I know that they can be bad), no-one deserves to live in such conditions. Can you imagine being in a fire and no-one can find the key to let you out of a furnace and you stand there and scream until those screams turn into shrieks and then only a wimper?????
I cannot even imagine the horror that faced those girls and I can only hope that no-one else suffers the same fate!
Thursday, February 11, 2010
In and out of a rut
I've been a rut for the past few days... guess its just the stresses and challenges of life getting to me... Bills, bills everywhere and as for the salary - no increase, nowhere in sight and then someone sent me a text message to listen to a song on YouTube. She wanted my feedback. I think its a good song. But in the suggested list of songs to listen as well there was 'Rise Again' - the Haiti tribute and 'Save a Life', both commissioned by the philanthropic visionary entertainer, Shaggy... i just have one word, AMAZING!
To see our people, the same Jamaican people that we cuss out as disagreeable and cantankerous coming together to make such fantastic songs and for one moment I was totally awed... I felt myself come alive as I listened to both songs. In fact, so alive I left that I listened to 'Save a life' about three times until i remembered that the headsets I had been using was a loaner (lol)
But why do I suddenly feel better? It's not just the sheer talent that is exhibited in the video but its also the unity and a vivid exhibition that if we put our differences aside for even a moment, great things can be achieved.
Out of those two efforts, so much money has been raised to help not only Jamaicans but also the people of Haiti. Imagine that, the same cantankerous, disagreeable Jamaicans touching the lives of people worldwide!!!
Have you heard the gratitude of the people of Haiti or the gratitude of the parents who's children benefit from the use of the almost $50 million worth of machines purchased for the Bustamante Children's Hospital?
Guys, we achieve so much more when we pull together than pull apart? Tears came to my eyes when I heard and saw one of my favourite DJs (Elephant Man) passionately express that its "full time we lend a helping hand, show some love, dis onoo betta ovastand..."... just amazing.
So thanks to Shaggy and them... i feel okay now :)
To see our people, the same Jamaican people that we cuss out as disagreeable and cantankerous coming together to make such fantastic songs and for one moment I was totally awed... I felt myself come alive as I listened to both songs. In fact, so alive I left that I listened to 'Save a life' about three times until i remembered that the headsets I had been using was a loaner (lol)
But why do I suddenly feel better? It's not just the sheer talent that is exhibited in the video but its also the unity and a vivid exhibition that if we put our differences aside for even a moment, great things can be achieved.
Out of those two efforts, so much money has been raised to help not only Jamaicans but also the people of Haiti. Imagine that, the same cantankerous, disagreeable Jamaicans touching the lives of people worldwide!!!
Have you heard the gratitude of the people of Haiti or the gratitude of the parents who's children benefit from the use of the almost $50 million worth of machines purchased for the Bustamante Children's Hospital?
Guys, we achieve so much more when we pull together than pull apart? Tears came to my eyes when I heard and saw one of my favourite DJs (Elephant Man) passionately express that its "full time we lend a helping hand, show some love, dis onoo betta ovastand..."... just amazing.
So thanks to Shaggy and them... i feel okay now :)
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Have no clue what to name this ... just ttake a read :)
I've been intentionally quiet over the past few days. You know how it is, being the introvert that I am. But I am also observant, I like to look at what's happening around me, process the information, select my words carefully and then speak.
A number of things has perturbed me over the period, one of them is the 'contempt' (i dare say) that it seems that Jamaicans have to welcoming Haitian refugees, who may end up on our shores as a result of their disaster.
Social sites like Facebook has been heating up. A friend of mine commented on a particular TV programme last week, whose host referred to the Haitians as 'those people' and one of her respondents was adamant with her opinions.... she don't want 'them' here, period.
Can I tell you, I am of like-mind. Except my reason is that we have so many people here suffering almost the same as, or even worse than the people in Haiti yet neither society nor individuals are paying any attention to them.
I like to listen to the wisdom in my colleagues' voices and I have a very wise co-worker by the name of Keera... very bright girl! She said something that made me think; "we are all hypocrites, we can help the people of Haiti and by extension we can help our own, but we refuse to be part of the solution, instead we complain about the problem" (not verbatim). Now, she didn't know this, but she caused me to think.
For many years, I have professed myself to be a Christian, but how many people have I shown Christian love to? Wasn't it Christ who said, "whatever you have done unto the least of these, you've done it unto me?" Have I truly lived the Christian principle until I have given a helping hand to a brother or sister, be they Haitian or Jamaican?
Friends, it's easy for us to point a finger and single out all the social problems that Jamaica has... mad people littering the streets, homeless families and children, not enough food to eat, money can't buy anything... but unless and until we step up and make that change, nothing will happen.
We would not have fulfilled our Christian principles and Christ would not be pleased.
Blessed,
A number of things has perturbed me over the period, one of them is the 'contempt' (i dare say) that it seems that Jamaicans have to welcoming Haitian refugees, who may end up on our shores as a result of their disaster.
Social sites like Facebook has been heating up. A friend of mine commented on a particular TV programme last week, whose host referred to the Haitians as 'those people' and one of her respondents was adamant with her opinions.... she don't want 'them' here, period.
Can I tell you, I am of like-mind. Except my reason is that we have so many people here suffering almost the same as, or even worse than the people in Haiti yet neither society nor individuals are paying any attention to them.
I like to listen to the wisdom in my colleagues' voices and I have a very wise co-worker by the name of Keera... very bright girl! She said something that made me think; "we are all hypocrites, we can help the people of Haiti and by extension we can help our own, but we refuse to be part of the solution, instead we complain about the problem" (not verbatim). Now, she didn't know this, but she caused me to think.
For many years, I have professed myself to be a Christian, but how many people have I shown Christian love to? Wasn't it Christ who said, "whatever you have done unto the least of these, you've done it unto me?" Have I truly lived the Christian principle until I have given a helping hand to a brother or sister, be they Haitian or Jamaican?
Friends, it's easy for us to point a finger and single out all the social problems that Jamaica has... mad people littering the streets, homeless families and children, not enough food to eat, money can't buy anything... but unless and until we step up and make that change, nothing will happen.
We would not have fulfilled our Christian principles and Christ would not be pleased.
Blessed,
Monday, January 25, 2010
CLARO Again!!!!
Christmas 2009 belonged to Claro! Their advertising campaign was catchy and witty. The use of a children's choir was a novel idea and that alone stole consumer's attention. Now its Valentines and Claro again has an early start out of the blocks with another well thought out promotional plan. Fact is, regardless of the fact that the concept was used when they started their campaign earlier last year is secondary. They have done enough to 'kill' the competition.
Whatever Digicel does now will be seen as 'follow fashion', unless, they go back to the drawing board and come up with something genius and not only genius... they need to come up with it fast!
I'm watching, coz just maybe the cellular wars are about to heat up again.
Whatever Digicel does now will be seen as 'follow fashion', unless, they go back to the drawing board and come up with something genius and not only genius... they need to come up with it fast!
I'm watching, coz just maybe the cellular wars are about to heat up again.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
The three year-old Drama King!
Have you noticed how dramatic and expressive these latter days children are? When they are making a case for rudeness, they are the most expressive, most convincing humans on the earth. Take for example, my three-year old 'drama king'... Mr. Xavier Kahlil McDonald... when he makes a case you cannot help but be convinced even if it is the rudest thing on the planet he just conceptualized.
But I should have known because at 6 weeks old, he woke up one night and refused to go back to sleep. He wasn't crying. I checked his diapers, fed and burped him, yet he just laid on the bed staring at me. Meanwhile, I was there the bewildered mother, begging him to go back to sleep, after all it was about 2 or 3 am, but Xavier just laid there and stared at me. Suddenly out of nowhere a big smile popped onto his face as if to say, 'trouble' and just as quickly as he smiled he closed his eyes and fell asleep.
Since then, 'trouble' has been his daily mantra. One Saturday evening, he announced that he was going to brush his teeth. Against my better judgment (he had brushed his teeth about an hour before because he had taken a shower) I gave him his toothbrush and left him alone. I heard no noise, water was running but there wasn't usual singing or singular banter which I have become accustomed to from him. So I kindly went to check what was happening. Xavier stuffed the bar of soap into the sink hole of the wash basin and filled the basin with water. When I got to the bathroom, the water was just about ready to run over onto the floor. Startled that I caught him, he announced "Look Mommy, big wata". I just took the toothbrush from him, chased him out of the bathroom and released the water.
One wonders where they come up with these things. It also makes me wonder if I did the same things as a child. There are quite a number of characteristics that I see in him that I know I possessed as a child. Mischievousness is one such characteristic.
Xavier will see his Uncle (who is 11 years old) sitting quietly reading or watching TV and proceed to either slap him and run or stand in front of the TV.
Then there is the lip on him!!! That's for another entry.
Seriously though, I am a happy Mother because you know I do not have to worry about a sad child. Xavier loves life. He's adventurous and looks for the fun in everything and that's what being a child is about. So let him enjoy himself. Hopefully, I will see the fun in his actions too.
Lata,
But I should have known because at 6 weeks old, he woke up one night and refused to go back to sleep. He wasn't crying. I checked his diapers, fed and burped him, yet he just laid on the bed staring at me. Meanwhile, I was there the bewildered mother, begging him to go back to sleep, after all it was about 2 or 3 am, but Xavier just laid there and stared at me. Suddenly out of nowhere a big smile popped onto his face as if to say, 'trouble' and just as quickly as he smiled he closed his eyes and fell asleep.
Since then, 'trouble' has been his daily mantra. One Saturday evening, he announced that he was going to brush his teeth. Against my better judgment (he had brushed his teeth about an hour before because he had taken a shower) I gave him his toothbrush and left him alone. I heard no noise, water was running but there wasn't usual singing or singular banter which I have become accustomed to from him. So I kindly went to check what was happening. Xavier stuffed the bar of soap into the sink hole of the wash basin and filled the basin with water. When I got to the bathroom, the water was just about ready to run over onto the floor. Startled that I caught him, he announced "Look Mommy, big wata". I just took the toothbrush from him, chased him out of the bathroom and released the water.
One wonders where they come up with these things. It also makes me wonder if I did the same things as a child. There are quite a number of characteristics that I see in him that I know I possessed as a child. Mischievousness is one such characteristic.
Xavier will see his Uncle (who is 11 years old) sitting quietly reading or watching TV and proceed to either slap him and run or stand in front of the TV.
Then there is the lip on him!!! That's for another entry.
Seriously though, I am a happy Mother because you know I do not have to worry about a sad child. Xavier loves life. He's adventurous and looks for the fun in everything and that's what being a child is about. So let him enjoy himself. Hopefully, I will see the fun in his actions too.
Lata,
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Extend a helping hand... Haiti needs you!
Today is a bittersweet day for me. Generally speaking I feel good but my spirit is troubled. It is troubled because my brothers and sisters are in trouble. The lives of the people of Haiti have once again been thrown into turmoil due to acts of nature. As if four hurricanes, back-to-back, in 2008 were not enough, they now have to deal with the devastation of the biggest earthquake, this side of the world in the last decade.
Have you seen the pictures? Devastation everywhere. Dead bodies piled high on top of each other. Tears and blood mixed with debris from the buildings streaming down the faces of women and children. The sense of loss, not only of belongings, but of life, hope and a future. They must be asking themselves, "how many times do I have to rebuild?", "what should I do now?"
Aside from the physical provisions of money, food and clothes, what encouragement can you now offer to these people? Do you say, 'God loves you' and 'He's going to fix it'? How exactly do you comfort a survivor who has lost every member of his or her family, home, job and sense of self?
The answer to these questions lies in our response to the affected. We answer these questions and many others with our actions. You see, God has no other hands and feet to use but ours. Now is the time to be our brother's keeper.
Time and distance ceases to exist because we must reach out. Friends, let us extend ourselves. I know times are tough but just imagine Jamaica in the same situation with no one to help. Extend a hand today. Pray for the people of Haiti and donate something, anything ... nothing is too small to give.
Love,
Have you seen the pictures? Devastation everywhere. Dead bodies piled high on top of each other. Tears and blood mixed with debris from the buildings streaming down the faces of women and children. The sense of loss, not only of belongings, but of life, hope and a future. They must be asking themselves, "how many times do I have to rebuild?", "what should I do now?"
Aside from the physical provisions of money, food and clothes, what encouragement can you now offer to these people? Do you say, 'God loves you' and 'He's going to fix it'? How exactly do you comfort a survivor who has lost every member of his or her family, home, job and sense of self?
The answer to these questions lies in our response to the affected. We answer these questions and many others with our actions. You see, God has no other hands and feet to use but ours. Now is the time to be our brother's keeper.
Time and distance ceases to exist because we must reach out. Friends, let us extend ourselves. I know times are tough but just imagine Jamaica in the same situation with no one to help. Extend a hand today. Pray for the people of Haiti and donate something, anything ... nothing is too small to give.
Love,
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
How come Jamaica, how come?
I am so distraught when I look at and think about my country these days... imagine at almost 48 years old, Jamaica - the country with the most potential on the planet - walking up and down the streets of the world like a mendicant - hat in hand, begging to supply her daily needs!
When I think of Jamaica, I think of the little train that could, but didn't. We have the most talented people on earth, yet, we refuse to produce. We are contented sapping up the name-brand this and that, from every where else in the world. Our people have this 'get-rich-quick' mentality that pisses me off daily. No one is willing to work anymore, everyone wants a hand out. It is this culture that has been cultivated by our politicians and unfortunately, this same culture has taken root.
Most people (particularly men) are content, sitting on the roadside from 'cock crow' in the mornings until dogs howl at night, digging out their hand middle. When will we realize that no one can change our destiny but ourselves? Bob Marley phrased it aptly when he said 'None but ourselves can free our minds'! When will we realize that if we depend on the state and politicians, we dig ourselves deeper into a mire from which we may never recover?
People, Jamaica is a great nation and Jamaicans are a great people. There isn't a corner of this earth that does not have a Jamaican living there. Our people are excelling all over the world. The world has our attention. Our brand is big! Nothing makes me prouder than when I am in foreign and here a local artist on the radio or see a local brand in the supermarket.
In August 2008 & 2009, our athletes forced the world, to stand at attention and to go as far as to learn the Jamaican National Anthem, because it was the most popular song in Beijing and Berlin. When will we recognize our potential? When will we begin in take ourselves seriously? When will we love and appreciate ourselves for who we are and stop trying to change our skin colour or hair texture to fit into another's mold? Come on Jamaica... wake up! We are in a crisis but we are not the crisis. Like the great Marcus Mosiah Garvey, I challenge us this morning, "Up ye mighty race (Jamaica), you can accomplish what you will".
When I think of Jamaica, I think of the little train that could, but didn't. We have the most talented people on earth, yet, we refuse to produce. We are contented sapping up the name-brand this and that, from every where else in the world. Our people have this 'get-rich-quick' mentality that pisses me off daily. No one is willing to work anymore, everyone wants a hand out. It is this culture that has been cultivated by our politicians and unfortunately, this same culture has taken root.
Most people (particularly men) are content, sitting on the roadside from 'cock crow' in the mornings until dogs howl at night, digging out their hand middle. When will we realize that no one can change our destiny but ourselves? Bob Marley phrased it aptly when he said 'None but ourselves can free our minds'! When will we realize that if we depend on the state and politicians, we dig ourselves deeper into a mire from which we may never recover?
People, Jamaica is a great nation and Jamaicans are a great people. There isn't a corner of this earth that does not have a Jamaican living there. Our people are excelling all over the world. The world has our attention. Our brand is big! Nothing makes me prouder than when I am in foreign and here a local artist on the radio or see a local brand in the supermarket.
In August 2008 & 2009, our athletes forced the world, to stand at attention and to go as far as to learn the Jamaican National Anthem, because it was the most popular song in Beijing and Berlin. When will we recognize our potential? When will we begin in take ourselves seriously? When will we love and appreciate ourselves for who we are and stop trying to change our skin colour or hair texture to fit into another's mold? Come on Jamaica... wake up! We are in a crisis but we are not the crisis. Like the great Marcus Mosiah Garvey, I challenge us this morning, "Up ye mighty race (Jamaica), you can accomplish what you will".
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Teenage crush!
Teenage crushes!!! I'm sure we all have had a crush on one someone at some point in our lives. Well, I've had my fair share of crushes but the teenage ones were the worst! I remember having a crush on this guy when I was about 14, oh Lord, I was pathetic. I would go past his house just to have a glimpse of him and if I didn't see him, I'd go past again. But you know what was the worst part about this crush: he never gave me the time of day! Didn't even know that I existed!
While I daydreamed about having his children and taking long walks on the beach, he would go past me, if he said 'hi', it would be fleeting and that's IF he said 'hi'.
But you know, life is so full of irony because guess who I 'buck up' a few months ago???? Same guy, but my have the tables turned. To put it mildly, I'm not the one doing the chasing!
Why am I saying all of this? When we are young, we sometimes react to another person's affection unfavorably. Totally ignoring someone because you don't feel the same way is rude! Feelings get hurt and self-worth gets crushed in the process.
So may I ask you to teach your children to be polite to each other. Teenage years are the most critical years in a young person's life. This is the point where we all want to fit in and sometimes we do some strange things to be accepted.
Looking back, I know I was willing to do anything for this guy to like me... yes, just about anything! But I was not even allowed to do: ANYTHING (lol)
Regardless of how well you teach your children, they need to interact with their peers as well, and it helps when they are polite to each other, instead of laughing at someone because they are not your type, treat that person with respect... after all you may have a crush on someone else ... and they may never give you the time of day! Imagine how that would feel...
While I daydreamed about having his children and taking long walks on the beach, he would go past me, if he said 'hi', it would be fleeting and that's IF he said 'hi'.
But you know, life is so full of irony because guess who I 'buck up' a few months ago???? Same guy, but my have the tables turned. To put it mildly, I'm not the one doing the chasing!
Why am I saying all of this? When we are young, we sometimes react to another person's affection unfavorably. Totally ignoring someone because you don't feel the same way is rude! Feelings get hurt and self-worth gets crushed in the process.
So may I ask you to teach your children to be polite to each other. Teenage years are the most critical years in a young person's life. This is the point where we all want to fit in and sometimes we do some strange things to be accepted.
Looking back, I know I was willing to do anything for this guy to like me... yes, just about anything! But I was not even allowed to do: ANYTHING (lol)
Regardless of how well you teach your children, they need to interact with their peers as well, and it helps when they are polite to each other, instead of laughing at someone because they are not your type, treat that person with respect... after all you may have a crush on someone else ... and they may never give you the time of day! Imagine how that would feel...
Monday, January 11, 2010
The good ole' days
Remember those days... the good old days when things were just nice... well maybe not all of us think of it as the good old days but there are somethings that we miss every now and then, we wish those could come back. Here's my list of those things that I think of 'every now and then'
MONEY
- 5 cent sweetie
- 10 cent bulla
- When $1 could buy 20 icy mints
- When $5 could buy a loaf of bread
TV
- MacGuyer on a Saturday night
- When Cosby Show was 'THE' comedy to watch
- Dick Pixley - JBC on Friday nights - "MONEY, MONEY, MONEY - IT'S A RICH MAN'S WORLD"
- Good evening, I am Charles Lewin for JBC News
- Good evening, I am Erica Allen for JBC News
- Dennis Hall on School's Challenge Quiz
- Sunday afternoon international football on JBC
- Saturday morning wrestling on JBC
- 'Getting up Harry' - the Andrews Commercial
SCHOOL DAYS
- Marbles
- Chinese skip
- Nutrimilk & nutribulla
- When slingshot was called a 'bingie'
- Toy cars made from juice box, bamboo and bottle corks
- Wheelie pon di BMX
- British Knights sneakers
EVERYDAY
- Sir Florizel Glasspole, Governor General of Jamaica
- Mayor Marie Atkinson - Kingston's Mayor forever!!!
- Rialto Theatre on Windward Road
- Rainbow Skateland
- Jamaica Telephone Company
FASHION STATEMENTS
- Matey Bag
- Big Blouse & Tights
- Everybody wore a jherri curl
- Nasty Jherri curl on the shirt collar
- Kid N Play hair cut
- Gold Teeth
- When men wore pants with pleats
Feel free to add your own lists too!
MONEY
- 5 cent sweetie
- 10 cent bulla
- When $1 could buy 20 icy mints
- When $5 could buy a loaf of bread
TV
- MacGuyer on a Saturday night
- When Cosby Show was 'THE' comedy to watch
- Dick Pixley - JBC on Friday nights - "MONEY, MONEY, MONEY - IT'S A RICH MAN'S WORLD"
- Good evening, I am Charles Lewin for JBC News
- Good evening, I am Erica Allen for JBC News
- Dennis Hall on School's Challenge Quiz
- Sunday afternoon international football on JBC
- Saturday morning wrestling on JBC
- 'Getting up Harry' - the Andrews Commercial
SCHOOL DAYS
- Marbles
- Chinese skip
- Nutrimilk & nutribulla
- When slingshot was called a 'bingie'
- Toy cars made from juice box, bamboo and bottle corks
- Wheelie pon di BMX
- British Knights sneakers
EVERYDAY
- Sir Florizel Glasspole, Governor General of Jamaica
- Mayor Marie Atkinson - Kingston's Mayor forever!!!
- Rialto Theatre on Windward Road
- Rainbow Skateland
- Jamaica Telephone Company
FASHION STATEMENTS
- Matey Bag
- Big Blouse & Tights
- Everybody wore a jherri curl
- Nasty Jherri curl on the shirt collar
- Kid N Play hair cut
- Gold Teeth
- When men wore pants with pleats
Feel free to add your own lists too!
Friday, January 8, 2010
Say thanks man.... sheesh!
I'm seriously beginning to like this blogging thing... it gives me an opportunity to speak whatever is on my mind. I don't have to worry about saying something untoward or inappropriate because they are, after all, my thoughts. So here I go again, blogging about something that's had me thinking from the time it happened: American Airlines, Flight 331!
Yes, you remember the one... that ill-fated Boeing which flew over the runway at NMIA and landed like 2 meters from the beach... yup, that's the one.
On my way to work this morning, I was listening to Full House Friday (yes, the same one with the mad people dem - Francois, et. al) and they were talking about this same flight. Particularly, they were referring to the reactions of passengers who exited the plane. It was as if they were singing a chorus because they voiced my opinions exactly. Every passenger who was coherent was cussing out the pilot, the police, the airport staff and anyone else who had anything to do with first response... but no-one, not one passenger stopped to say 'Thank You, Jesus/Allah/H.I.M/Krishnah'!
Now my friend, me a tell you the truth - after my life done flash before me, and I see all the sins I committed yet I am still here, maybe with some minor scratches and bruises, but me still deh above and not beneath - the only thing I could do at that particular juncture is to give praise to the One who brought me through! After that, all the cussing and carrying on could occur. Bags to claim and monies to be paid to me for my pain and suffering and loss of employment could happen - but that is after me give thanks!
As I go about my daily business, I recognize that we are not so much of a thankful people anymore. We complain when bad things happen but when we make it through those situations, we never say thanks...
As this is a new year, we can make saying thanks a part of our resolution... it takes less than a second and after all, it's the polite thing to do!!! So instead of complaining all the time, stop for a minute and say thanks man.... sheesh!
Yes, you remember the one... that ill-fated Boeing which flew over the runway at NMIA and landed like 2 meters from the beach... yup, that's the one.
On my way to work this morning, I was listening to Full House Friday (yes, the same one with the mad people dem - Francois, et. al) and they were talking about this same flight. Particularly, they were referring to the reactions of passengers who exited the plane. It was as if they were singing a chorus because they voiced my opinions exactly. Every passenger who was coherent was cussing out the pilot, the police, the airport staff and anyone else who had anything to do with first response... but no-one, not one passenger stopped to say 'Thank You, Jesus/Allah/H.I.M/Krishnah'!
Now my friend, me a tell you the truth - after my life done flash before me, and I see all the sins I committed yet I am still here, maybe with some minor scratches and bruises, but me still deh above and not beneath - the only thing I could do at that particular juncture is to give praise to the One who brought me through! After that, all the cussing and carrying on could occur. Bags to claim and monies to be paid to me for my pain and suffering and loss of employment could happen - but that is after me give thanks!
As I go about my daily business, I recognize that we are not so much of a thankful people anymore. We complain when bad things happen but when we make it through those situations, we never say thanks...
As this is a new year, we can make saying thanks a part of our resolution... it takes less than a second and after all, it's the polite thing to do!!! So instead of complaining all the time, stop for a minute and say thanks man.... sheesh!
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Do something good for someone today!
Despite the individual challenges we face daily, there are so many opportunities to do good deeds. One needs to understand that a good deed is not necessarily monetary but refers to the many ways that we touch and inspire each other to become better people.
Spending time to read with a child, combing a senior citizen's hair, or assisting a blind person to cross the busy street, all qualify as good deeds.
So let's look for opportunities today. Bless someone with your presence. Smile or laugh with someone and if necessary cry with them too... but spend some time and do something good for someone today :)
Spending time to read with a child, combing a senior citizen's hair, or assisting a blind person to cross the busy street, all qualify as good deeds.
So let's look for opportunities today. Bless someone with your presence. Smile or laugh with someone and if necessary cry with them too... but spend some time and do something good for someone today :)
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Feedback... Stop blaming the church
Firstly, I want to thank everyone for their feedback on yesterday's blog... It caused such a furore! As they say, if you want to get people passionate, throw a little religion or politics in the mix... lol!
But the conversation actually took a different spin. My point was that individuals should take responsibility for their actions and stop blaming others. My commentators however took it to another level - they felt that the church only takes from poor people and gives no significant benefits back to society. Because I am of a contrary opinion, I thought it would be prudent to make some comments...
1. There are hypocrites in the church as there are in almost every other sphere of life
2. There are individuals who go into the Church because of what they can get out of it. In fact, many of these church leaders live a better quality of life than some of their members.
3. Equally however, there are individuals whose main intent for going into the Church is service to God and man. These individuals go above and beyond the call of duty to ensure that their parishioners/members are assisted in every aspect of their life.
4. There is hardly a school in Jamaica that is not aligned to a church. This is not because the church gives financial benefits to the school but it acts a moral compass which guides the Teachers who are molding our children's lives.
One of the biggest misconceptions is that if the church is doing something, money is insignificant and 'the Lord will provide' therefore they should walk blindly into situations. Friends, whenever a church has a crusade for example (this is what is defined as Missions) there are costs associated with it. Let me give you a breakdown;
- Rental of the tent
- Electricity
- Rental of Chairs
- Accommodation & stipend for visiting pastors
- Rental of Port-a-potties
- Setting up of the infrastructure
- Transportation & Labour costs
- Refreshments
Imagine if this crusade is for a week or two - Rental of the venue, permits to host the event... it costs whole heap a money!!! And bear in mind, this is a core duty of the church - they MUST evangelize!
Then there are the visits to the shut-ins, senior citizens and children's homes, they cannot go with empty hands - 'Praise the Lord' cannot full belly so there has to be provisions for these homes. There are the educational exploits. Skills training for interested persons - alliances which are created through organizations such as HEART and USAID.
Jobs are provided through the church. The office staff - administrators, anxillary, kitchen staff, security & drivers.
As we always say, give credit where it is due. The church does a number of outreach programmes. Persons are benefitting. I maintain that maybe what they need is a public relations arms to toot their horns!!!
But the conversation actually took a different spin. My point was that individuals should take responsibility for their actions and stop blaming others. My commentators however took it to another level - they felt that the church only takes from poor people and gives no significant benefits back to society. Because I am of a contrary opinion, I thought it would be prudent to make some comments...
1. There are hypocrites in the church as there are in almost every other sphere of life
2. There are individuals who go into the Church because of what they can get out of it. In fact, many of these church leaders live a better quality of life than some of their members.
3. Equally however, there are individuals whose main intent for going into the Church is service to God and man. These individuals go above and beyond the call of duty to ensure that their parishioners/members are assisted in every aspect of their life.
4. There is hardly a school in Jamaica that is not aligned to a church. This is not because the church gives financial benefits to the school but it acts a moral compass which guides the Teachers who are molding our children's lives.
One of the biggest misconceptions is that if the church is doing something, money is insignificant and 'the Lord will provide' therefore they should walk blindly into situations. Friends, whenever a church has a crusade for example (this is what is defined as Missions) there are costs associated with it. Let me give you a breakdown;
- Rental of the tent
- Electricity
- Rental of Chairs
- Accommodation & stipend for visiting pastors
- Rental of Port-a-potties
- Setting up of the infrastructure
- Transportation & Labour costs
- Refreshments
Imagine if this crusade is for a week or two - Rental of the venue, permits to host the event... it costs whole heap a money!!! And bear in mind, this is a core duty of the church - they MUST evangelize!
Then there are the visits to the shut-ins, senior citizens and children's homes, they cannot go with empty hands - 'Praise the Lord' cannot full belly so there has to be provisions for these homes. There are the educational exploits. Skills training for interested persons - alliances which are created through organizations such as HEART and USAID.
Jobs are provided through the church. The office staff - administrators, anxillary, kitchen staff, security & drivers.
As we always say, give credit where it is due. The church does a number of outreach programmes. Persons are benefitting. I maintain that maybe what they need is a public relations arms to toot their horns!!!
Monday, January 4, 2010
Stop Blaming the Church
Can I tell you I am sick and tired of society blaming all its ills on the church. Everyday someone else gets up and complains "The Church has lost its way", "The church is failing".... blah, blah, blah... but I am asking what I believe is a pertinent question, what has happened to good old responsibility? Why is no-one taking responsibility for their actions anymore? The church did not tell gunmen to go out and kill and maim innocent people. The church did not culture or cultivate thieves. The church did not authorise revellry, gambling or any other 'carnal sin'. Yet, daily the church is being blamed because of the results of these behaviours.
The fact is friends, no one even listens to the church anymore because everybody is caught up in thier own righteousness. We are more concerned about 'living comfortably in ourselves' and 'being spiritual'. We all want to do what we want to do when we want to do it.
It is time that people begin to take responsibility for their actions. We reap what we sow and many of the behaviours being exhibited today are a result of years sowing in the wrong vineyards. The chickens are now coming home to roost!
Stop pointing fingers at others because of what you have become... start with the man in the mirror and make the change!
The fact is friends, no one even listens to the church anymore because everybody is caught up in thier own righteousness. We are more concerned about 'living comfortably in ourselves' and 'being spiritual'. We all want to do what we want to do when we want to do it.
It is time that people begin to take responsibility for their actions. We reap what we sow and many of the behaviours being exhibited today are a result of years sowing in the wrong vineyards. The chickens are now coming home to roost!
Stop pointing fingers at others because of what you have become... start with the man in the mirror and make the change!
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